[gentleman's heart language]: before meeting that man, every woman is a flower, maybe rebellious, maybe crazy, maybe ridiculous, but please remember, in fact, they have been quietly waiting for the gorgeous moment
Xia Ji
1. Physical rent
When reading the story of Xia Ji, I don't know why I suddenly think of the scene in Zhang Ailing's red rose and white rose - "Zhenbao leans on the appendix, kicks the appendix with one foot first, and gradually kicks her cane chair intentionally or unconsciously. As soon as the chair vibrated, the meat on her arm trembled slightly. She didn't have much meat, just because the bone shelf was small and slightly fat. Zhenbao said with a smile, "do you like busy people?" Jiao Rui put her hand on her eyes and said with a smile, "it doesn't matter. My heart is an apartment." Zhenbao said with a smile, "well, what about the rooms available?" Jiaorui refused. "But I'm not used to apartments. I want to live in a single building. " Jiao Rui snorted: "you have the ability to remove the cover!"
Similarly, she was also a woman who wanted to rent her body - no woman in history had ever exerted her "sexual charm" to the extreme like her, and no woman had attracted men's historical vision so much - there are detailed records about Xia Ji in the pre Qin classics Zuo Zhuan, lie Nu Zhuan and Gu Liang Zhuan. The book of songs and Guoyu are also supplemented, and Shiji and Zizhitongjian are more convincing. In the biography of Lienv, it is said that she is "three old and young, three for the queen, seven for the wife, and the Duke and the Marquis contend with each other. In a word, it's just a monster that puzzles men. He has fallen in love with three monarchs and made peace with seven men. As soon as the men saw her, they lost their minds.
She is just a princess (Zheng Mu's father and daughter) from a small country. She is as beautiful as a flower. She is open and precocious. When she was young, she began to have an intimate relationship with her brother and son. During this period, there are historical records that she was taught fangzhongshu by a strange person. She was able to collect Yang and replenish Yin to make her face permanent. When she learned this, she went to find someone to try it. Finally, she tossed her brother to death. This is obviously the wanton assumption of the men who wrote history. In the spring and Autumn period, the rites and music were broken and the atmosphere was open, but the princesses of a country were not so ridiculous that they had to find men to practice their skills.
Maybe he was born with high sexual ability, and Zi man was killed. In order to make this playful daughter more peaceful, Mu Gong married her to Chen state and became the wife of Xia Yushu, Minister of Chen state. From then on, her husband's surname was Shaji. It seems that the relationship between husband and wife is not bad, soon gave birth to a son, named Xia Zhengshu, a little long then sent abroad to study.
The wonderful story begins with the death of Yu Shu. Kongning, the friend of imperial uncle, looks at the lonely and widowed beautiful Xia Ji and secretly has an affair with her. Xia Ji's beauty and amorous feelings, especially the charming amorous feelings between the beds, make him want to live and die. While enjoying himself, Kong Ning couldn't help but show off to Yi Xingfu. If Yixing's father didn't believe it, Kong Ning took out an embroidered trouser (embroidered crotch) and said that Xia Ji had given it to him to show his father. Yi Xingfu is not willing to show weakness, and tries every means to seduce Xia Ji. Seeing that her father was tall and handsome, Xia Ji was much more elegant than Kong Ning. She had been with her for a long time, so she was willing to have a private meeting with her. Yi Xing's father knows that he loves women and asks for aphrodisiac to flatter Xia Ji. Xia Ji falls in love with him more and more, so she ignores Kong Ning.
When Kong Ning was jealous, he decided to introduce a third force, Chen linggong. He praises Xia Ji's beauty to Chen linggong, saying that there is no beauty in the world, so as to revenge Yixing's father. It is this man who brings Xia Ji into the political vortex.
Many historical records begin here, because it is a body game of a woman and three husbands, which is especially thrilling: "Chen linggong, kongning and Yi Xingfu are familiar with Xia Ji, and they all like to play in the court. Xie Ye remonstrated: "if a public minister declares adultery, the people will not be able to do so, and they will not hear of it. You can accept it! " The duke said, "I can change it." Announcement 2. The second son asked to kill him, and he was forbidden by the government, so he killed Xie Ye "(Zuo Zhuan? In the ninth year of Xuangong, Chen linggong, Kong Ning and Yi Xingfu wore Xia Ji's profane clothes and boasted about each other in the court. Xie Ye really couldn't see it, but after a few words of advice, he was killed by them.).
A monarch, two ministers, and three men with status, status and education share a woman, and show off openly in Xia Ji's underwear, which is a bit strange to some extent. But Xiaji, after several years of marriage and separation, regained her former openness when she was widowed. It was amazing when she opened up. At the same time, she had sex with three men. It was strange for women to do this.
In fact, we always feel that there is something in it - we don't want to repeat her terrible seduction and licentiousness, and we don't want to criticize this woman with curious eyes following the eyes of all living beings - it's obviously ridiculous to install morality on her, but there is something that seems to emerge behind her seduction, debauchery and absurdity——
Jiaorui said: "in fact, it doesn't matter. My heart is an apartment house." Jiaorui said: "you have the ability to remove the cover!"
Sex is a thing
If Xia Ji is actually a very "pure" woman, she will definitely be thrown tomatoes and eggs. People are often frightened by her licentious behavior. How can such an omnipotent woman be associated with "purity"?
This is because Xia Ji's life is very pure, pure without any worldly atmosphere.
Someone once said, "conquering a man is through his stomach, but conquering a woman is through her vagina.". Many so-called "female writers" hold high the banner of female perspective, and almost without exception write about "sex" and "body". This is not because they deliberately favor, but because women are naturally more inclined to nature and body, men are more inclined to society and secular, the most natural women are closely related to sex.
When Lady Chatterley was walking in the manor, she guarded her husband who had lost his sexual function and had several lovers who were aloof. She was depressed and even self abusive. Although she was rich and noble, she should be carefree, but she felt suffocated until she met the hunter Merox. There is a big difference between them in their identities, but sex has become the bond of their love, and also the purity of their love in life. Lady Chatterley was willing to give up everything and gave birth to Merlot's child.
This is a prediction of the author Lawrence. As the opponent of civilization alienation, he thinks that sex is the instinct of human life, the most natural and purest, and the essence and authenticity of human nature, compared with the so-called education, civilization, knowledge, ethics and culture. Many civilizations distort human nature. The two sexes are full of secular calculation, family competition and vanity comparison. But sex is the most natural and beautiful link and channel.
A famous director once said, "sex and violence" is the eternal theme of art, because they are the most primitive instinct of human beings.
Behind Xia Ji's shocking debauchery is her obsession with sex and pure life instinct. Before meeting that person, she was a woman who only pursued simple happiness. In sex, she got great satisfaction and pleasure. No matter who the other party is, she just feels curious and full of women's desire to conquer. She wants to conquer all men - through sex.
At that time, she was like a child who was confused by the game. Under the action of instinct, she played it again and again. Secular, social, public opinion, for her, it's just a joke. Even men, for her, are just means and tools of sex - she didn't meet him at that time. No one, or man, taught her to grow up and learn to love.
But she is not without brains, she is the educated Princess of the state of Zheng, at the time of life and death, she is free to deal with the meddlesome king of Chu Zhuang. But she either disdains the so-called etiquette, or the so-called ethics. She is alive, simple and instinctive. Compared with the era full of hypocrisy, cunning, conspiracy and ambition, she is just like a poppy blossom in the turbulent world.
3. Unwilling to grow up
It has been said that every girl is a flower before she meets her right one. No matter they are dignified and quiet or rebellious and crazy, they are quietly waiting for the brilliant moment of bloom.
In fact, to a certain extent, women are a kind of biological population more inclined to nature - men's romance is secular and social, maybe not just for the pleasure of sex, but for the sake of possession and annexation, they like to conquer all kinds of women. But romantic women are different. Because of the pressing social pressure, as long as they dare to be romantic, they are naturally unconventional and unrestrained, "sex" will become their simple and happy pursuit goal - they voluntarily use "sex" to keep themselves in childhood.
All women don't want to grow up.
Every woman tries to keep herself in her childhood by various means.
It's the anxiety of not wanting to grow up - the fear of becoming an adult. In fact, Xiaji and jiaorui are the same. They are also rejecting adults - they just take different measures, some will choose to avoid, some will forge ahead.
The "enterprising" way is extreme, and it is very similar to the "adult" way, but it is not hidden and innocent, because it is just a means for them to stay in their childhood. They live in a happy, simple, utilitarian and aimless childhood world, and care what others say - but one day, they will all grow up and mature - every girl will become a woman - not only physically, but also mentally, and there is only one condition for such maturity - to meet true love.
Before she met the man who "removed the heavy cover", Xia Ji was still a child who was fond of playing sex games. Although she was a mother at that time, her mind was not opened. Before she met the man who really made her grow up, Xia Ji should be a strange combination of mature young woman's body and innocent young girl's expression. It's absolutely lethal to men.
Because of this endless and terrifying sexual charm, the three famous men have abandoned their dignity and have been content with this shared sex game for several years. But they forget that Shaji has a son and has grown up and returned home.
It's miserable to be Xia Ji's son. The mother is so sacred in the eyes of the child. When he grew up, he wanted to protect his own dignity and his mother's dignity - but when he came back, he was faced with such embarrassment and humiliation. On the one hand, he was a loyal monarch, on the other hand, he was a good friend of his father, and on the other hand, he was his own lewd mother, which he could only endure.
But this kind of patience did not last long, but because of a few jokes, suddenly burst out of destructive power.
History records that: Chen linggong, Kong Ning and Yi Xingfu were drinking in the Xia family. Linggong said to Yi Xingfu, "Zheng Shu is like your son." Yi Xingfu said, "he looks like you." (Zuo Zhuan? In front of Zheng Shu's face, it's not right to drink and have fun in Xia Fu. After drinking too much, they tease each other and say that other people's sons are their own. This is not only insulting Zheng Shu's mother, but also insulting Zheng Shu and his respected father. No man can bear this kind of insult.
Zhengshu finally can't bear it. The shame has made him unable to care about the so-called "loyal king". He shot his monarch to death with one arrow, but ran away from kongning and Yixing's father. The escape of these two people, let Chen perish, let Zhengshu be split, but let Xiaji met the man.
4. Love the country and the city
King Zhuang of Chu was the overlord of the spring and Autumn period at that time, and the state of Chu was close to the state of Chen. Of course, when the state of Chen had such a big problem, he had to take care of it. In ancient times, regicide was a great crime to exterminate the nation. Coupled with the slander of Kong Ning and Yi Xingfu, the Chu army soon came to the city.
At that time, what was Hagi thinking? The disaster was caused by her son, but it was caused by her. There are not many detailed records of this process in history books. It's just the biography of the Eastern Zhou Dynasty? Fifty three chapters records that Zheng Shu wanted to escape, but he didn't take his mother with him. He only told his mother, but before he could get out, he was caught by the Chu army and imprisoned in the back car. What about Shaji?
King Zhuang asked, "why don't you see Xia Ji?" The soldiers searched their homes and got them in the garden. Howard fled, not knowing where he was. This is from the garden. In fact, Xia Ji didn't plan to escape at all.
She bowed to King Zhuang again and said, "unfortunately, the country is in chaos and the family is dead. The lives of concubines and women are in the hands of the king. If you spare my life, I will be your maid At the moment of life and death, she didn't rush to escape or panic, but let Zhuang Wang spare her life freely, which comes from her great confidence in men and herself.
It's strange that the king of Zhuang didn't know about this obscenity. Kongning, they dare not say, but how could he not understand before he sent troops? The reason why he still listened to the slander of these two treacherous officials was that he had the heart to destroy Chen long ago. It was a good thing to open up territory, not to mention in the name of justice! Therefore, after the goal was achieved, King Zhuang began to search for Xia Ji. There is no man who is not lustful. He is full of curiosity and envy for this enchanted spirit. Therefore, Xia Ji can smile quietly. At that time, she must be dressed up, pitiful, Yingying kneeling down, gorgeous move four.
When the men saw her, their looks reminded people of Jin Yong's description of Chen Yuanyuan: "suddenly they heard the sound of silk and bamboo, and several officers came to the hall with a woman in their arms. The woman bowed to Li Zicheng Yingying. After that, she stood up. The candle light reflected on her face, and everyone said "Oh.". After practicing Hunyuan Gong, Yuan Chengzhi's spirit was extremely controlled. Although he was lying in the same bed with ah Jiu, he was not rude. But when he saw this woman, he couldn't help thinking: "there is such a beautiful woman in the world!" The woman's eyes passed over the faces of all the people. When everyone touched her eyes, they were as comfortable as if they were immersed in warm water. I just heard her voice say: "my concubine Chen Yuanyuan, I wish you long live, long live, long live your king." There was a moment's silence in Huangji hall. Suddenly, there was a clatter, and someone's glass fell to the ground. Then there was another clatter, two clatters, and another person's glass fell to the ground. Just then, Yuan Chengzhi's wine cup fell to the ground. Li Zicheng was very angry. At the moment, everyone looked at Chen Yuanyuan's beautiful appearance, but no one noticed anything else. All of a sudden, a young general sitting at the bottom of the head let out a low voice. He climbed underground and went to hold Chen Yuanyuan's leg. Chen Yuanyuan let out a scream and dodged away. A general over there cried, "it's hot, it's hot!" With a hiss, he tore open his clothes. Another general called out, "beauty, if you drink this glass of wine in my hand, I will die." Hold the wine cup to Chen Yuanyuan's lips. For a time, people's hearts were floating, and all the brave generals who had been through all kinds of battles were fascinated by Chen Yuanyuan's beauty. " (blue blood sword? 19 chapters)
Similarly, in the hall of Xia mansion, many men perform a similar scene: when King Zhuang of Chu saw Xia Ji, he immediately lost his soul and wanted to be a concubine. Next to Shen Gong, Wu Chen suddenly stood up and said that Xian Jun should not be lecherous, and Zhuang Wang could only let go. Looking at the king don't want to, general childe reactionary idea, is about to ask for Xia Ji from Zhuang Wang. The sorcerer jumped out and said that this woman had killed her husband, lover, son, and Chen kingdom. In short, there is no doubt that beauty is in trouble. Do you want life or sex? He was speechless when he spoke. Finally, the king of Zhuang had to give the demon to Yin Xiang, an old widower.
Everyone grabs, which is expected by Xia Ji. She has been wandering between the sexes for many years, and she is very familiar with men's character. Although she is still a naughty child in nature, she also has accurate analysis ability and high seduction wisdom. In her eyes, men are interesting toys. She likes to watch them fight for each other and enjoys the fun of being contested. However, she also noticed that in this series of good plays, one of the toys was not dumped by her. She secretly looked at the man who denounced her as a "monster" - I didn't expect that there were still men in the world who were not confused by her.
If a woman used to confuse others, once she can't confuse someone, she is doomed to be confused by this person.
5. Run into love
In the lobby, within a short distance, Xia Ji drifted to the man with her eyes. He looks like King Kong with angry eyes. With a healthy face, he talks about "this woman is an ominous thing between heaven and earth..." ——Xia Ji secretly looks around. Those eyes full of desire are staring at her. They are struggling and hesitating. The beauty is present, but the ominous things are endangering themselves. Xia Ji sneers.
Only someone asked: "in this case, the Lord can't marry, I can't marry, can you marry?" ——Xia Ji suddenly raised her head and looked at the man, but she was disappointed. The man repeatedly said: "I dare not." ——He didn't dare, either. Shaji raised her chest and looked down, smiling. It was fun, she thought.
Only listen to the seat of Zhuang Wang prevaricate: "since everyone dare not, give it to Yin Xiang old bar." ——The unfortunate old man was in the back team and didn't hear Qu Wu's "ominous" remarks, so he boldly accepted them. Xia Ji looks at her white haired second husband and turns her lips - it's obvious that this toy is too old to be fun.
At the time of kowtowing and quitting, in the subconscious light, she suddenly saw that the man was looking at her - it was a look she had never seen before - was it hate? Pity? Is it love? What is it I don't know. She's used to seeing men's lustful faces and lustful looks, but she's never seen such a look. She was stunned for a moment and suddenly gave him a mischievous smile.
After a while, Qu Wu's "ominous" theory was proved again, and Yin Xiang soon died in the battlefield. Xiaji is not sad. She gets a new toy. Yinxiang's son Heiyao climbs into her bed. But I don't know why, this kind of game lost the former happiness, even the young and strong black want, also can't let her happy up, let her feel a kind of awkwardness instead.
She didn't know what was going on outside. When Lao Tzu died, her son was greedy for his stepmother and refused to take the corpse. She didn't care at all in the past, and if she cared about her, she was not Xia Ji, but now she was afraid. She is not afraid of others' contempt. She is afraid that this rumor will reach the man's ears.
She began to toss and turn, began to fall asleep, began to reject the intimacy of Heiyao I don't know what happened. A person who has never had a heart, in fact, always wants to be happy, but now A kind of unprecedented irritability surged in - at this time, received a note from the maid: "return! I'll hire a girl. " She looked up blankly and heard the maid tell her that "it was Mr. Qu Wu who gave it". Suddenly, she burst into tears.
For the first time in her life, she wanted to go home. So he told the king of Zhuang that he wanted to welcome Yin Xiang's body back to Zheng. Zhuang Wang looked at the beautiful woman with pear blossoms and rain, but he could only see and couldn't get it. He had better send it away, so he "pitied and made a promise" (Chronicles of the states of the Eastern Zhou Dynasty? 53).
When she went back, she got the news that her family had received the man's engagement - he would not let her down.
Because the man was a famous loyal minister of the state of Chu, his family agreed. She has a bad reputation, she knows, she doesn't care, but that man wants to marry her! This time, I really want to get married - to be a man's woman.
"Jiao Rui was not angry. She turned her head to think about it and said," yes, when she was young and good-looking, no matter what she did in society, she always met men. But later, there was always something else besides men There's always something else... " (red rose and white rose by Eileen Chang)
6. Blooming
In the first few years, it was recorded in historical records that the state of Jin attacked the state of Qi, and the state of Qi appealed to the state of Chu for help. It happened that King Zhuang of Chu died, so he did not immediately send troops. Later, the state of Qi was defeated and made an alliance with the state of Jin. Later, the king of the Communist Party of Chu, who succeeded to the throne, thought that the reason why the state of Qi obeyed the state of Jin was that the state of Chu didn't rescue it in time, not that the state of Qi wanted to do so, so he wanted to avenge the humiliation of the state of Wei and the state of Lu for the state of Qi, but this meaning needed to be conveyed to the king of Qi. Qu Wu answered: "I'm willing to go!" There is no historical record of the time she waited for him. It was only determined that in the second year of Chenggong, she returned to the state of Zheng. It took at least four years for her to succeed the king of the Chu Communist Party and form an alliance with Qi and Jin. She waited patiently for so many years.
Her reputation has been bad for a long time. Since the men who write history don't hesitate to write about her debauchery, if there is any more romance in these years, they won't let it go, but they don't. Her absurdity, her playfulness and her craziness stopped abruptly after meeting the man. It's hard to explain the wonder of love, but there is love between Qu Wu and Xia Ji.
Maybe she had sex with countless men, but they had no relationship before Qu Wu came to Zheng. At the beginning, in the state of Chu, Qu Wu was the "envoy of Dao Yan" (Zuo Zhuan? In the second year of Chenggong. Even the chronicles of the Eastern Zhou Dynasty, which is good at romance, says that the two people are not in close contact with each other. Then the man will marry her, and she will wait for the man for several years - in her years, it is almost too clean to believe!
Maybe even Xia Ji herself can't say clearly. In her life full of fun, she suddenly found that she was no longer young, just like jiaorui. Sometimes, "besides men, there was always something else..."
A few years later, the man came. In name, he was an envoy to the state of Qi. In fact, he turned to the state of Zheng to marry her. After a night of fun, she asked him what to do. She knew that he couldn't go back. At the beginning, he vowed that he would not let Chu Jun accept her and other ministers accept her. Now he married her and he couldn't go back.
He said it doesn't matter, we go to the state of Jin, which is powerful enough to protect us. "We are not afraid" - when he said "not afraid", his face was full of determination and vicissitudes - she was used to selfishness and selfishness, so she did not understand it. In fact, it was an elopement that gambled on the whole family, and many people would bleed because of them. But all this is not enough to worry about, just because of love, is also satisfied and gratified.
They fled to the state of Jin, and her legend came to an abrupt end. There was no more licentious figure and charming posture in history. If there were later, it was just a legend implicated by others - the man's family was destroyed, her husband would be the enemy of his hometown all his life, and the chaos of Chu began from then on - and all these had nothing to do with her.
Perhaps many years later, she has become a good wife and mother, sitting in the garden of the state of Jin, squinting at the sunset, may still remember a little bit of the past absurdity——
"Zhenbao was silent for a while. Instead of looking at her, he asked in the air," what's up? How are you? " Jiao Rui was silent for a while, and said, "very good." It's the same as those two words just now, but the meaning is totally different. Zhenbao said, "do you love Zhu?" Jiao Rui nodded and answered him with a pause every two words, saying, "I've learned how to love and be serious since you Love is good in the end. Although we have suffered, we still need to love in the future... " (red rose and white rose by Eileen Chang)
——From you, I learned how to love.
